How dare you disrespect by using the name gautam buddha in such an obscene fashion. You should be jailed for this cowardly act.

but can you please explain how can youremark on the name of GOD . what kind of defend is this “ want to humiliate elerdoc that’s why used name of GOD “ pathetic .

Dear Mist,

I fear if you would accede to my appeal. But, as a brotherly suggestion should I request your kindself to desist from attempting and making such jokes as part of print - line across the MMB.

No doubt, even the worst of people and incidents make us to learn. In a way that, least we can do is not to be fall prey to them. But, we must avoid ; more so, when the fair - sex too make an integral part of this august forum.

I know you would, as always.

Otherwise,it made a fun for few given such like approach though never desirable for decent ilk.

Tilak R Sharma
22nd Aug 2012*

Dear Tondon jee,

My answer was too simple and the aim was not to target anybody.

Anyways, we should close this chapter as it continues to occupy too much of space with no end in sight.

With regards and best wishes,

Tilak R Sharma
22nd Aug 2012*

Dear smartian /Tilakji,

The answer / key lies in the intent of a message and the use of words. Also the overall intent of open disrespect conveyed by the giver to the recipient. There is also something known as a parliamentary expression. One can be critical but not personally offending. An office can be criticised in the most severe manner - but the office holder can not be offended in a personal way.

There is another convention - not to put a person in judgmental scrutiny - when he is not present to defend himself.

If, in the private space of your drawing room, there is a friendly banter between two /or more persons, even your use of cuss words may be a done thing.

On the other hand, when as a member of portal - like MMB - you use your auto publish rights to post your views, which may likely be read by thousands of readers around the world - you must have to use your auto-publish rights with a lot more responsibility. That is why there is the need to be absolutely compliant with the conduct-code as applicable to the portal. That is the only common standard prescribed for all. So when I post my views here, I do it following the CoC discipline. And while doing this I also do so with a feeling of safety that no boarder will be crossing the line of conduct code.

But that is not happening today. People have taken to equate their freedom of expression with their perceived freedom to abuse anybody - which they do not really have! Such opinionated persons need to change their opinion.

TondonA

Dear Tondon jee,

In last para, line 1, please read, "Professor in Human Science or Psychology".

Tilak R Sharma
22nd Aug 2012*

Dear Tondon jee,

Yes, the ultimate and only salvation, be it in case of MMB itself or the galaxy of boarder who frequent it as boarders of some fame, primarily lies in obediently implementing n spiritually complying with the set and much publicized Code of Conduct. Definitely, all of us are founding wanting on this basic need and responsibility on our part.

In being bit informal this time, not only with you but with all those who are involved in this episode, I would like to share my experience with you. While schooling, excepting few, all of us think for a while before posing a question to the teacher. Many times more, similar was the case with me ; never did I in my wildest of thought/s. But, now, amongst us the peers, I would not hesitate to parry a question which even the Oxford Dictionary could not answer me - `A HISTORY SHEETER" - How well you or for that matter any of my boarder - friend can define it. I have utterly failed and thus seek an answer to it. Will anybody spare time n effort and oblige me ? I know, you will, failing which I shall have tax my mind and seek an answer within. In the meanwhile, feed back on my earlier questions remains un-answered.

Please do not treat me as if I am a Professor in Human Science of Psychology ; it just strikes my mind, too often.

With regards,

Tilak R Sharma
22nd Aug 2012*

Dear smartian / Tilakji,

In response, I can make only one possible statement.

Let this board - our beloved MMB - operate in a manner that is fully compliant with its own very Conduct Code. I am sure, no one can take exception to my this statement.


Let this entire community all members and the MMB Moderator / MMB establishment take a firm resolve to make this portal fully compliant with its professed `Conduct Code`

But, what is being professed as its CoC - is it being actually practiced? The answer is more often NO than Yes.

So long as the daily / continuous violations of the Conduct Code will continue in an unabated manner, so will the attempts to make it fully compliant.

I think the MMB has to necessarily go through this pain as a due process for reform. Please take it as a curative process.

Take my this expression with all my respectful regards for your positive feelings.

TondonA

Dear smartian/Tilakji,

Just logged-in and noticed some unnecessary confusion on the board.

The Mist`s message was reposted by me earlier today using my `you-said-it` id. This reposting id is my id - and all my ids are fully declared and known to the board openly.

I had reposted The Mist`s message earlier today when I had logged in for a very short-while. It was in response to some odd remark claiming that the subject boarder has never posted bad joke in poor taste.

Since, I was in the process of logging out, and The Mist message quoting the elradoc joke was the most recent one available, I reposted that message.

The message was reposted in order to put the record straight because it was indirectly pointing to another boarder - very clearly known to all on the board. And it was claimed that the boarder has never done that.

I hope this puts the record straight.

TondonA

Gud afternoon smartian ji. The gautam buddha remark was made 4 a boarder called elradoc. This particular id postd that joke regarding antya (anantraj123) n on d next day he gve advice to tondona to stop the complains. Thats the context. nw the babies r crying such as radhe_nandu (creatd to target radhika nandlal) have a nice day smartian ji.

what kind of defend is this elradoc` (shanti ka doot) thats why you will disrespect some religion

Dear smartian ji, hope u remember elradoc` (shanti ka doot) appeal (posted 4daz ago) here in mmb. I just showd watz the motive of this shanti ka doot. Read my todaz first mgs to moderator. No further comments

Dear Tondon jee, Mist and MH jee,

When the litigation is in progress both the parties give their own versions and in the run of such an uneventful situation, it proves to be a long - drawn process and with each single move, on the part of either party, it further adds to the already vitiated atmosphere. To my mind both the initiator of such a sordid story as also the one who with given a second thought added avoidable flavour to it are blameworthy.

How sad and painful it is for one to undergo such an experience. Is it the quality of life we intend to enjoy ? Is it the projection which we want to make before the young / new boarder who look at us to emulate some finer - prints in life to emulate in life ?? Is it our sole passion in life never to differentiate between good n bad ??? Is the quality of life we want to enjoy ???? Is it our only aim in life to treat a religion/fellow human being as if he is from some other enemy planet - a quality which none of the religion profess / advocate ????? Numerous question which strike n haunts one`s mind. Answer, of course, remains a far - away dream.

Intricate, by its very nature, the issue is by now and remain in the court of MMB Moderator sir, all of us can look at it to deal in a very discreet and serious manner and bring all those to book who raked the issue/fueled further on it after the sad episode is seriously and most diligently gone into.

Tilak R Sharma
22Nd Aug 2012*

MisT what is this "keep crying.." means you continuing disrespect to religion you are a sensible boarder how can you say like this

I am posting my message in caps because i am shouting yes i am shouting. Who is this fellow the mist and why is he trying to defame a religious icon? I demand he be handed over to the authorities for this mischief. Moderator redflag this id